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Single Volunteers of Hunterdon County (SVHC) is a group of energetic, enthusiastic, and community-minded singles
who enjoy helping others and meeting new single friends.
SVHC was formed by Ann Levy and Sonya Comstock in February 2001. It is modeled after the national organization,
Single Volunteers of America. To view other chapters around the country and world, check out
www.singlevolunteers.org
Single Volunteers of Hunterdon County builds friendships and helps others
We are a newly-formed organization that has helped the YMCA
solicit funds for their activities, assisted with the MS
Walk, volunteered at the Shad Fest, volunteered at a Cape
May Hotel in setting it up for the season, gave our time
and energy to restoring the USS New Jersey battleship
docked in Camden, volunteered at the American Cancer
Society's Relay for Life and golf tournament, provided
ushers at a local theater, and worked at NORWESCAP
repacking food for local food banks. Other projects will
be helping Flemington with its restoration of Main Street
and visiting veterans at the Lyons Hospital. See our
calendar.
SVHC is not a dating or matchmaking service.
It is an opportunity to do volunteer work and meet other
singles. As SVHC grows, we will continue to add projects
to better serve the community and our members.
How does Single Volunteers work for me and the community?
The concept behind Single Volunteers is
simple. Find projects with nonprofit organizations where
groups of SVHC volunteers can help --jobs from answering
phones for telethons,building houses, staffing blood
drives, assisting with charity events, helping at
fund-raisers, or just stuffing envelopes. Project
coordinators then recruit a team of single volunteers who
get together in a productive, positive environment and
get the job done and done wonderfully well.
Single Volunteers provides singles with a productive way to meet other singles by organizing volunteer activities which groups of singles then perform.
The goal of each activity is to have a minimum of 6-12 single people, ideally an equal number of men and women of similar ages, work in close proximity
on a worthwhile project.
A national clearinghouse provides information through mailings to help local chapters get started and through a web site to inform the general
public about Single Volunteers and serve as a connection for existing chapters. Single Volunteers also works to broadcast nationwide the basic
concept of singles volunteering together in worthwhile projects in hopes that others start a local chapter.
Chapters are self-governing and patterned after the needs of their local community, the supervising agency or organizers which could include a church,
a nonprofit organization or an individual. The national clearinghouse only provides guidance and the web site and is not responsible for the operations
of a local chapter. Local chapters are encouraged to initially be adopted by a similarly missioned nonprofit agency and then eventually file
for 501(c)3 nonprofit status. Funds generated by modest dues or from fund raising can pay for a staff person. Single Volunteers is not intended to
be a profit-making business.
The present way in
America to meet other singles is in bars, using dating
services or through the personals, all of which can take
away a person's self esteem and waste precious time.
While volunteerism has been suggested as an acceptable
way to meet other singles, too often the volunteer
activities are dominated by women or individuals who are
married. Churches have also been suggested as a decent
way to meet singles, but in many cases the single person
is surrounded by happily married couples and children,
doubling the hurt and frustration. Friends still
introduce friends but many times, the friends just don't
happen to know anyone single.
With half of the population divorced, offices
discouraging interoffice romances, a disenfranchised
telecommunicating population, and the legitimately
evolutionary need to couple, a way had to be found to
overcome these obstacles. With the national reliance on
volunteerism to make up for a growing deficit, Single
Volunteers could make two birds live with one
stone.
While many similar organizations have formed prior to
Single Volunteers, such as Singles Outreach Services in
Albany, New York and Professional Volunteer Services in
Ann Arbor, Michigan, there hadn't been a nationwide
public relations campaign about singles volunteering.
Only dating services and the personals offered advertised
solutions.
The concept of singles working together crystallized for
Single Volunteer's Founder, Anne Lusk on Thanksgiving Day
1995, when she worked in a soup kitchen. She volunteered
to feed the homeless and low income individuals in an
extremely nice restaurant in Burlington, Vermont. Upon
arriving, Lusk was put in charge of the donated coats
which in the past had been put on a table in a heap and
which then often ended up on the floor. Working with
others, she organized the coats as a cross between a Ski
and Skate Sale and Saks Fifth Avenue, which would allow
the homeless the dignity of selecting a properly sized
and nicely hung coat. After the coats were organized that
morning, the restaurant operator called together all the
people who had worked on that project to say that the
coats had never been organized so quickly and everyone
could go home. Not wanting to be sent home at 10 in the
morning on Thanksgiving Day, Lusk hid. Soon the homeless
were allowed in the doors and she became their personal
shopper, selecting just the right coat for wear and
style. She worked all day with the homeless, oblivious to
the others also volunteering. At the end of the day, the
restaurant operator closed the doors and spread out a
gourmet Thanksgiving banquet for the volunteers. Lusk
realized she had been working with a group of single
people who were by then exhausted but, on what could have
been a lonely holiday, who were also very content.
The more formalized thoughts for Single Volunteers began
in the summer of 1996 when Lusk decided to put together a
work crew to clean up an old Stowe, Vermont, farmstead
which the Town had purchased. The Selectmen nixed the
idea for liability reasons but in the interim, a list of
friends who could volunteer, had been created. The
volunteers happened to be single and
were disappointed to hear the project was canceled.
Perhaps they had been salivating over the gourmet picnic
promised on the shaded lawn of the white farmhouse, but
they were possibly also disappointed to not be able to
work with other singles.
Not wanting to let this potential energy escape, Lusk got
on the phone to all her friends in the nonprofit sector
to see if there might be work for volunteers. She had
volunteered in Vermont for the past 20 years, had been
Chair of the Vermont Trails and Greenways for 8 years,
served on a variety of Gubernatorial appointed boards
including the Vermont Board of Forests, Parks and
Recreation and had helped start a United Way in Lamoille
County. Her Rolodex was packed with potential.
Lusk then set to work on the name. Discarding a variety
of options and contacting friends in the public relations
and marketing business, Lusk settled on her simple and
self explanatory name, "Single
Volunteers."
The first project which landed in her lap was Habitat for
Humanity. They needed 12 people to put up stud frame
interior walls. Lusk then had to scramble to assemble a
crew. She had entered an 8-mile road race and prepared a
poster for the registration period in hopes that
volunteers might sign up. When the race organizers forgot
to hang her poster, she had second thoughts and wondered
if Single Volunteers was a bad idea. Undaunted, she
joined a Vermont dating service, so at least she would
have a list of single men. The list arrived near the time
of the Habitat project, but Lusk went down the list
anyway, looking for biographies which indicated carpentry
skills. Lusk then made cold calls to the men and, thank
goodness, the guys were nice and said yes to her request.
Lusk's daughter teased her and said she was supposed to
call up those men and ask if they wanted to have a cup of
coffee, not put up walls in a Habitat for Humanity
House.
Lusk also sent out news releases to the Vermont
newspapers. A local television station came to cover the
Habitat project. With her name and phone number listed,
her phone was ringing constantly with volunteers wanting
to help. Single Volunteers of Vermont was begun. Lusk was
especially gratified because not only did singles like
the concept, married people approved and called to offer
projects or recommend friends as members.
As membership grew, projects needed to grow also to meet
the need of singles wanting to volunteer. For the
projects, the requirements were that they had to involve
a group. No one was to park a car in a parking lot all by
himself or answer a phone alone. Also, there was to be a
learning component to each project. While stuffing
envelopes was fine, getting a tour of the recycling
center with the operations for rebuilding appliances,
provided a better awareness of the nonprofit organization
for which you were stuffing envelopes. The Vermont ETV
phone-a-thon, for example, took the volunteers on a tour
of the back rooms at the ETV station.
When Single Volunteers was started, Lusk was existing on
a low budget, but she invested her own funds in getting
the organization up and running. She knew she could have
spent funds to join an expensive dating service, but felt
postage and phone calls for Single Volunteers was a
better investment.
The organization reached a crossroads with the decision
to stay nonprofit and not charge a fee upwards of $200 to
cover expenses. After polling the membership, it was
agreed that Single Volunteers should stay as a volunteer
nonprofit organization without a sizable membership fee.
While SV did eventually ask for $15 to help defray costs,
that was a donation and not demanded of members. Everyone
agreed, if you charge a large sum, it smacks of a dating
service which clearly Single Volunteers was not. People
should not be asked to pay for the privilege of doing
volunteer work.
As a sidebar, it was later learned that Single Outreach
Services (SOS) in Albany, New York was a not-for-profit
volunteer singles group but, not a nonprofit 501(c)3.
They only charge $15 for a yearly membership which
includes a monthly newsletter, personals, calendar or
volunteer projects, etc. They have an advantage though of
critical mass. Albany is a large city, and they have 4000
members. Their members are charged $3 to $20 for a class
and $5 as admission to a dance. With those funds, they
can support a staff. In a rural community, there would
not be a population base for a large membership. A small
community's only option is to provide some staff and
expense money through nonprofit sponsorship. Since Single
Volunteers was created to serve rural and urban
communities, it was deemed preferable to have Single
Volunteers nonprofit. Also, the volunteering opportunity
should be provided to all people, regardless of their
ability to pay. Mothers with deadbeat dads, childcare
costs and less salary, should be given the opportunity to
join Single Volunteers and perhaps meet a nice
someone.
After completing countless projects in Vermont, Lusk
started on her mission to get the word out nationwide.
She assembled press kits of newspaper articles written
about Single Volunteers. A reporter for TL@E magazine
read the materials and called to do a feature in the
Heroes column. That piece was in the Man of the Year
issue, December 30,1996. E-mails, letter and phone calls
started pouring in from people across the country who
wanted to form chapters.
Lusk created starter kits and sent them to people wanting
to form chapters. By this time, she had been contacted by
Burlington Community College which offered meeting room
space and free use of the copy machine. Lusk paid for the
postage and envelopes to send out materials to people
across the country.
In Vermont, modest membership fees helped pay for phone
calls to members to notify them of upcoming events. Large
gatherings of all the members were organized so that
members could walk around the room and sign up for
projects which appealed to them.
After continued national exposure on TV talk shows, the
Boston Globe and countless other newspapers, chapters
were started in Texas, Ohio, Massachusetts and
Washington, D.C. Originally, Texas had the largest
chapter with 700 members, but this was quickly surpassed
with the web wizardry of Dana Kressierer in Washington,
D. C. Her Single Volunteer group now boasts 6500 members,
and her efforts have been applauded in People magazine,
The New York Times, and The Washington Post, to name a
few.
Eventually Lusk decided to get her Ph.D. in Architecture
at the University of Michigan. She organized all of the
papers for the Vermont organization and gave the material
to Vermont members but those who took over were not able
to carry the torch and the group eventually folded.
Lusk did, however, take the papers for the Single
Volunteers National Clearinghouse to Michigan and in
between studying, she continues to encourage the creation
of new chapters. With the recent mention in Good
Housekeeping and The New York Times, she has been busy
sending out materials. Dana Kressierer manages the web
connections admirably and has helped groups form in such
cities as New York, with others showing promise in
Chicago and Boston. Kressierer also continues to gain
national attention which is the mission of Single
Volunteers. Other veteran chapter leaders such as Pat
Percival in Ohio, Nancy Ballard in Texas and Andrew Smith
in western Massachusetts, continue to encourage others to
follow their lead.
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